Lillian Barocio
Staff Writer
Jonathan Reed, professor of religion, discussed the importance of relationships during this month’s “What Matters to Me and Why” lecture series Nov. 14 in the Ludwick Center Sacred Space before roughly 50 community members.
The gathering included a 20-minute presentation by Reed, followed by questions and a light reception, including sweet chili pistachios, one of Reed’s favorite snacks.
During his talk Reed explained the importance of relationships in three different ways – “expand, deepen and explore” – as key to living a good, healthy and long life.
“Prioritize relationships and if you prioritize relationships, you’ll live longer and be happier,” Reed said.
Reed talked about inspirational quotes he refers to in his own life from Maya Angelou, and Carly Simon and Mark Twain.
In an effort to expand his relationships and do some good, Reed and his wife, Annette, opened their home to a Ukrainian refugee family recently, who lived with them for a few months.
In the process, they all became good friends and have stayed close.
“I was very interested in the fact he took in refugees and I thought it was cool he built such a good relationship with them as well,” said Sydney Sensat, a junior year kinesiology major who attended the lecture.
Reed also talked about his relationship with his wife, and their 40-year marriage. He said they set aside time for dinner and dancing every Friday night, in addition to going on vacations, hiking and bird-watching. Reed said it’s important to slow down and enjoy the little pleasures life has to offer.
“My biggest takeaway from this talk was building your relationships, not only with people but with nature,” said Julissa Espinoza, director of civic and community engagement.
Reed also talked about the importance of exploration and doing new things with loved ones.
He said he frequently explores with his wife and grown children. They explore their boundaries in various adventures. One of these activities he recalled was white water rafting.
The monthly series is sponsored by the Office of Religious and Spiritual Life, Black Student Services and the Center for Multicultural Services.
The next “What Matters to Me” talk will be Dec. 5.
Lillian Barocio can be reached at lillian.barocio@laverne.edu.
Lillian Barocio is a sophomore journalism major and a staff writer for the Campus Times.
